Leisure and Pleasure

It's not just women - men also have unnecessary anxieties during sex.  1. What if I can't get it up? Most (reasonable) women, especially if they actually like the guy, won't throw a tantrum or start giggling if there's a performance issue . Yet, this is what most men worry about - that things won't work the way they're supposed to, and they'll end up embarrassed or ridiculed. But honestly, I think that's just nonsense. Every woman understands this situation because it’s often harder for women to relax and focus during sex; they frequently have issues with that too. Of course, it’s not exactly helpful if we express surprise and say, "This has never happened before! Aren’t you attracted to me anymore?" Because it might actually be the opposite. Over-excitement can also cause a kind of mental overload, which results in a man not being as hard as he wants to be. In the blog post mentioned above, I also talk about what to do in this situation t...

Let’s take a look at the most common hang-ups that tend to become issues during intimacy, even though they really shouldn’t be.  1. I’m too fat, too skinny, too bony, too cellulite-ridden, my boobs are too small, and besides, I have a pimple. I’ve noticed that many women, especially after giving birth, stop feeling sexy because their bodies have changed, and they no longer see the same reflection in the mirror. As a result, they become dissatisfied with themselves and don’t believe their husbands, no matter how much they insist that a few extra pounds or slightly saggier breasts don’t make the slightest difference during intimacy. Speaking from experience - despite having what society might consider an imperfect body - I’ve been in bed with plenty of men. Some stayed for just one night, others came back for more. The secret? I never once worried during sex whether they noticed the cellulite on my butt. Ladies, take note: the moment a guy sees you naked, and the blood starts rushin...