3 Things Men Unnecessarily Worry About During Sex
It's not just women - men also have unnecessary anxieties during sex. 1. What if I can't get it up? Most (reasonable) women, especially if they actually like the guy, won't throw a tantrum or start giggling if there's a performance issue . Yet, this is what most men worry about - that things won't work the way they're supposed to, and they'll end up embarrassed or ridiculed. But honestly, I think that's just nonsense. Every woman understands this situation because it’s often harder for women to relax and focus during sex; they frequently have issues with that too. Of course, it’s not exactly helpful if we express surprise and say, "This has never happened before! Aren’t you attracted to me anymore?" Because it might actually be the opposite. Over-excitement can also cause a kind of mental overload, which results in a man not being as hard as he wants to be. In the blog post mentioned above, I also talk about what to do in this situation t...