3 Things Men Unnecessarily Worry About During Sex

It's not just women - men also have unnecessary anxieties during sex. 



1. What if I can't get it up?
Most (reasonable) women, especially if they actually like the guy, won't throw a tantrum or start giggling if there's a performance issue. Yet, this is what most men worry about - that things won't work the way they're supposed to, and they'll end up embarrassed or ridiculed. But honestly, I think that's just nonsense. Every woman understands this situation because it’s often harder for women to relax and focus during sex; they frequently have issues with that too.

Of course, it’s not exactly helpful if we express surprise and say, "This has never happened before! Aren’t you attracted to me anymore?" Because it might actually be the opposite. Over-excitement can also cause a kind of mental overload, which results in a man not being as hard as he wants to be. In the blog post mentioned above, I also talk about what to do in this situation to ease the tension and survive without it being awkward.


2. My dick is too small
Yes, this thought crosses every man's mind, even the ones packing horse-sized equipment. From a young age, they start comparing themselves to each other, figuring out where they land on the size chart. But I’ve never really heard a guy say he was completely satisfied with his tool. And since guys are the ones who watch the most porn - where the stars have massive equipment - they end up thinking women can only be satisfied by size.

But that’s a huge mistake, gentlemen! Because it doesn’t matter how long or thick it is - if you don’t know how to use it properly, you might as well forget it, because it’s not going to bring anyone pleasure. And just because a woman might sigh when seeing Rocco [Siffredi], that doesn’t mean she’d want him in her bed every day. A larger vibrator can serve just fine when you want to deliver some special pleasure now and then, but when it comes to everyday married life, it’s usually the average size that wins the race.

The female vagina, on average, is about 11-14 cm deep, and it expands when aroused. So, even with what you men might consider a “small” size, you can give a woman incredible pleasure. So forget this nonsense!


3. I'm too fat, too skinny, or not muscular enough
Yes, just like women worry about their appearance, men can also stress out about not being in perfect shape. But, just like on the flip side, if a woman has already decided to get horizontal with a guy, it won’t matter to her if he has a little belly or isn’t propping himself up with Schwarzenegger-style biceps. Women are usually pickier about looks, but gentlemen, if a girl’s finally in bed with you, don’t overthink it - trust me, she’s already fine with the way you look.

And honestly, in a romantic, dimly lit room, seduced by masculine charm, she’s not going to be pondering how many pounds her bed partner should lose. If a man uses all his skills to send his partner to heaven, he could be Danny DeVito and she’ll still be crazy about him. And yes, gentlemen, that’s the explanation behind the cliché question: "What’s a woman like her doing with a guy like that?" Spoiler alert: it’s not always about money…


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